aside from general inappropriateness of discussing somebody's weight separately and in relation to their mental/physical state that you're absolutely right about, there's a serious line between speculating about somebody based on their public messages (as eledhwenlin said above, that's what we do here: oh, ryan and spencer and brendon had a dinner together, are they friends still/again?) and bringing this speculation directly to them like these people who apparently tweet them about their weight (what the everloving fuck, seriously) or 'ryden exists' or mental state or whatever. either you're seeing them as characters based on their public personas, in which case mind the fourth wall, or you're seeing them as people, in which case mind their motherfucking privacy. this is just - beyond the pale.
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aside from general inappropriateness of discussing somebody's weight separately and in relation to their mental/physical state that you're absolutely right about, there's a serious line between speculating about somebody based on their public messages (as