It is SO CREEPY. I haven't watched the movies, but I read half of one of the books and parts of another one while I was working at the bookstore, and oh my god. He watches her sleep, makes decisions for her, follows her around, and their wedding night, AKA the first time they have sex? She doesn't remember it but wakes up with lots of bruises and aches. It reads like she was roofied.

*grins* You could just watch the show? I really want to rewatch it now.