Yes to all of this. I LOATHE when someone comments on what I'm eating. Where I work now, I have honestly never been around so many people who comment so much about what I'm eating for lunch. This is why I eat at my desk every day instead of in the breakroom. As much as I disliked and didn't get along with the girls I worked with at my old job, I will say this about them, we ate lunch together basically every day, and neither of them ever commented on what the others ate. I kinda miss that.

Luckily, my group of friends isn't judgey like that. And that includes my best friend who's been battling anorexia for 10 years, because she's self aware enough to know that her issues with food are HERS and she doesn't dump them on other people.