the wrong end of the telescope

I'm not going to tell you how to handle your reaction, but I need to handle mine in my own time, and if that reaction includes getting angry, so be it. Basically, if I feel like one of my favorite bands split up (even if that technically isn't what happened), no amount of telling me not to be sad or that we don't know who's to blame or that I'm wrong about how I feel is going to change that. Time might. Space to breathe and talk about how I feel might. Which is all I asked for.