the wrong end of the telescope

I was devestated with I heard the news about Bob. And I was worse when I thought alot of people were going to leave bandom in response (I am mostly a lurker- I am working on changing that tho. I have very much enjoyed several of your fics!). I am heartened and relieved to see that people mostly just need time and space- just like you said. I completely respect that people need to do what is best for themselves and if they need a break or don't want to participate in bandom anymore because of the loss of Bob, I get it. (My brain is still kind of refusing to accept the whole situtation.) I am glad that you are still around and trying and I wanted to offer my support even tho I haven't commented here before. /hugs/ I am grateful to posts like these that help me feel better by sharing the grief without blame. So thanks for that. I am send you lots of good vibes and hugs to feel better. <3